the intro...

Hello and welcome to my blog! I’m your hostess, Ladyface.

I'm a 27 year old queer femme sex worker. Between my fancypants day job and my super sexy side gig I spend a lot of time being an attentive, diplomatic Ladyface so this blog is where I’ll let my hair down...I might even curse. Though I curse like a kitten sneezes, which is too say it's infrequent and harmless and still shocks me more than anyone.

I am a sex positive lady and will write candidly about my kinks, my history, my exploits and my daily life (but only the good stuff). And so that I can write as openly as possibe, I'm keeping this space anonymous. All characters are real people in my life but all names are pseudonyms and always will be.




P.S. you can now follow me on Twitter! @1ladyface

Sunday, December 18, 2011

Thanksgiving, belated

 I don’t like that my last post was a little…complainy.  So this one will be 100% positive.
Appreciation for butches/studs/ftms:

  1. Thanks for knowing that we do have brains between our pretty little ears.
  1. Thanks for not minding if our heels make us a little taller than you…or a lot taller.
  1. Thanks for appreciating all the work that goes into looking as fabulous as we do.
  1. Thanks for knowing the difference between being protective and being jealous.
  1. Thanks for your brutal hands, huge cocks and filthy minds.
  1. Thanks for the cuddles and spooning and those strong, safe arms.
  1. Thanks for smelling like wonderful things: sweat, old spice, sawdust, whiskey, coffee and (if I’m a lucky ladyface) sometimes even delicious desserts.
  1. Thanks for recognizing that we femmefolk don’t do femininity for you.  (Except sometimes, when we do.)
  1. Thanks for being patient and kind in those moments when we are…flustered, insecure, crestfallen or just plain grumpy.
  1. Thanks for the chivalry.  It is noticed and appreciated and no matter how many times you open a door for me, I still get that wonderful warm squiggly feeling in my tummy.  Really.
every. time.

love love love,



  1. Thanks S. Stone! And thanks for being my very first comment! I'm new to this whole blogging thing but I'm pretty sure that means I owe you cookies. So, what kind and where should I send them? (I really will if you want to email your address or PO box to